Reasons Why You Have Not Met Mr. Right

Reasons Why You Have Not Met Mr. Right

Relationships and alliances cannot be forced. Some people believe in predestination and coincidences, however there are some criteria you must meet if you want destiny to work out to your favor. It is popularly noted that like minds attract like minds, but building a strong personality and placing yourself in the right position is a key step in attracting the right partner.

The fact still stands that you cannot give what you do not have; but it also implies the fact that the force of attraction that pulls you to others, determines the force of attraction with which people can pull you to themselves. 

Below are few reasons you might have not met the person you termed as Mr. Right.

1) Personality building.

Everybody navigates towards personalities they could define as suitable for themselves. People tend to highlight some personal qualities they term as admirable and presentable in different individuals that they can accommodate, thereby acting as a valid reason for them to be friends and this could also trigger partnerships and foster relationships. 

For you to attract the kind of man you want, you first need to build your personality, personal etiquettes, qualities, communication skills, building your circle with the right people and a growth friendly community could be a way to scale up in meeting the right partner.

2) Defining MR. Right.

Most people have a vague idea of who they really admire to be their future partner. Distinctly, they assume personality traits that narrows down the qualities they should look out for when describing the man for the job.

It should be a flexible draft of physical traits, values, likes and every other thing you could describe as essential for your partner to possess which could include career, ambition, religion, beliefs and family values.

You also have to carefully dictate which of the values are core and the one that can be overlooked. One thing you must also keep in mind is that people change with time so do not limit them to what you wrote on your expectation list.

3) Be self-driven and dependent.

 Many men would want a lady that has specified her goals and is working it out. Men tend to be more comfortable with women they can see quantified level of achievements and prospects in. Ladies who are self-driven always attract men of high standards and substance.

The force of attraction helps you get Mr. Right when you plug in to its terms by being the right woman for him likewise. You do not necessarily have to attain all the qualities he might possess but you should be a person that can be viewed with attainable prospects.

4) Be transparent.

Most relationships fail because of lack of transparency. Most people loose Mr. Right due to distrust. Ladies generally could be easily judged for their past mistakes more often than men therefore to earn a man's trust you would definitely have to own up to things that you did in the past that you might not be proud of, most definitely your histories that could tarnish your image or integrity. 

Little lies are the extra salt that spoils the soup of trust. When the glass of trust is broken no matter how it is mended the cracks still remains. 

5) Understand your own personality. 

One thing you must know is that the success of any relationship you could find yourself starts with you. Most ladies do not understand themselves and therefore they can not tell the personality traits that compliments theirs. Most times the best relationships are found in persons whose personality compliments each other's. 

Similarly, an introvert could be perfectly matched with an extrovert because one person might have to always to push the other and the other might also have to calm the other person down in some instances. If you are still searching for Mr. Right know the kind of person you are, maybe if you are a person with short temper you should find a man that is patient and long tempered.

In conclusion, the rules that applies are not static so find what works for you

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